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Caption: ⚠️ IMPORTANT CLARIFICATION ⬇️⬇️⬇️ I haven’t always felt this way. This has revealed itself to me over this last 1.5 years of being single, reflecting on past re… more ⚠️ IMPORTANT CLARIFICATION ⬇️⬇️⬇️ I haven’t always felt this way. This has revealed itself to me over this last 1.5 years of being single, reflecting on past relationships, and learning from how I did things before. So here’s the additional clarification👇🏼 Sure, you can call me your “girlfriend” and I can call you my “boyfriend” but not in the traditional nonsense I used to abide by. When most people say they have a bf/gf, it means they’re taken. Off the market. Unavailable. Nope. 👎🏼 Not anymore. It feels silly to take myself “off the market” before there’s any real commitment, i.e., an engagement. So with that said, yes, I may have multiple “boyfriends” at any given time. And they’re free to have multiple “girlfriends” too. Basically, it’s an open relationship until we BOTH know for certain we want to spend the rest of our lives together in sacred matrimony. WHYYY in tarnation would I close off allll other options and make myself fully unavailable when my “boyfriend” isn’t even certain I’m his wife yet?! Wtf. Nooo. I can’t tell you how many times I exclusively dated someone for 3, 4, 6 months… even YEARS… only to realize we weren’t aligned!!! Talk about an inefficient use of time! 🤯 It’s also not about being in a rush because I do not believe we should rush into things. It’s about efficiency. When I really like a man, sure, I can feel territorial or jealous. But that’s not serving me anyway and this approach is an opportunity to heal that. I believe this can actually build trust, honesty, and security because it requires two secure people to handle it. Btw this doesn’t mean I’m seeking men out or necessarily sleeping with multiple “boyfriends.” Lord knows I haven’t gotten that kind of action in a while anyway so might as well keep the streak going. 😂😅 But even if you DO sleep with them WHO TF CARES?! As long as it’s done responsibly, with honesty and clear communication- that’s the key! When done well, this can set a really strong foundation for the future. Any and all thoughts welcome!! 🙏🏼 P.S. I have an amazing women’s retreats in paradise in the works. Wanna come?😍 Comment “RETREAT” and I’ll send you the deets! 🫶🏼 less
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